Kicking Cancer's Butt

Unfortunately the little vermin won't go quietly away, they're determined to take me down with them as much as possible. We just got home from treatment 4 and I am definitely down for the count at the moment. My legs feel like lead, like I've just run a 10K or something.

I did actually run one back when I was 12 or 13. I got my butt kicked then too but I finished and was 2nd place in my age group even. Okay, so there were only 2 people in my age group and I think there may have only been 5 people overall who finished behind me, but dangit I FINISHED! I was followed closely by an ambulance the last couple of miles which actually gave me the will to finish because I couldn't have stood the humiliation of being the wimp that had to be brought back in an ambulance. I already looked the part of a wimp -- skinny, gawky teenager with frizzy hair and braces who couldn't tolerate heat very well -- I was just stubborn as all get out and determined not to act like one, heat stroke be damned. And sure enough, as I was staggering up towards the finish line my parents were yelling "Run, Vicki, run," and I was like, "I AM running." I really don't remember much beyond that except when they called my name to give me my trophy. I was kinda embarrased because I knew I only won by default, but hey, when most girls my age where lounging in bed until noon, I was putting myself out there and doing somthing I never thought I could do. When you can maintain that kind of determination in the face of thinking, "This is probably the stupidist thing I have ever done," and you know that anyone who could read your mind would look over and say,"girl you got that right," you deserve to be rewarded.
So now I'm sitting here stumbling my way through round four with only two more to go. And of course I wouldn't classify it as one of the stupidist things I've ever done (a list that is quite long and contains several interesting characters and situations, by the way), but it is one of the hardest, so yeah, I'm expecting a trophy at the end of it.

He gave me his heart

This afternoon Nick gave me a little rock that he found outside at school. I was like "oh good, thanks, that's so nice" but I really didn't give it a second thought. Then tonight before he went to bed, he told me about the rock. Turns out a girl in his class pointed it out and he picked it up, put it in his pocket and then once he was back in class he took it out and carved on it with his scissors to make it more of a heart shape. As he told me this, the lightbulb went off and I finally got it -- from the time he got that rock he was thinking about carving it into a heart to give to me. To...ME! Of course on the outside I'm all cool and thanking him for it and telling him how sweet he is, while on the inside I'm bawling because even when he's at school and playing with his friends he still thinks of his momma.

So then I go and tell Bob about it and show him the rock. He's all "you're never getting rid of this are you?" And I'm like "oh heck no, I'm keeping this forever." It's tucked away in my jewelry box and as far as I'm concerned it's now a family heirloom. And I'm thinking that yeah, one day he'll meet some sweet little girl and he'll put a rock on her finger, but I bet it won't be one that he hand-carved with a pair of blunt-tipped scissors.

Sorry for the lack of updates

Eek, I totally let the whole month of February go by without any posts. Let's see, in a nutshell, the Saints won the Super Bowl, we went to Mardi Gras parades and the day after Mardi Gras (Wed. 2/17) I had my 3rd chemo treatment. This last round really knocked me down and it took me over a week to really feel better. I've been saying chemo wasn't as bad as the first trimester of pregnancy, but this last time was right up there with the worst I ever felt while pregnant. Apparently the nurse forgot to give me my nausea meds in the pre-drip and I was soooooo sick! Bob had to take me back out to the cancer center that night for medicine and fluids and then I went back the next day for more. Nick and Vivian were out of school that week and thankfully my parents were down here for a couple of days so they could help with the kids. I've decided this is NOT going to happen again - I'm going to make them show me the bag and watch them hook it up! I'm only half-joking when I say I think I'm traumatized and I'm going to need the nausea meds before I even go out there next week for round 4. Part of the reason I hadn't blogged about it earlier is that it still makes me shiver and gag when I think about it. So on to better news.....

Monday I went to see my surgeon for a follow-up ultrasound to see how everything is going. The tumor is still there but it is definitely smaller -- yea! Originally it was 1.5 cm long and .9 cm thick. Now it's 1 cm long and only .4 cm thick. She also said it's a lot less dense and has less bloodflow. This means that for all the nastiness I've gone through, the drugs are working!!!!! We're going to keep on going with the chemo for 3 more rounds and in between the 5th and 6th I'll go back to the surgeon for another follow-up and to plan surgery. Once the surgery's done they'll decide whether I need radiation or not.

My goal is to get everything finished up by June 30th because July 1st is when our insurance year starts over with deductibles and co-pays. Yeah, I know it's an odd time of year for your insurance to start over, and this time last year I was really frustrated about it because Jake was due at the end of July. So basically everything I paid towards my deductible up to the end of June wasn't going to count towards the bills when I had him since I didn't figure insurance was a good enough reason to ask my doctor to induce a month early. But then when I was diagnosed with cancer four months later, it was kinda nice to know I had already met my deductible and put a good dent in my maximum out of pocket. Just goes to show you, even when you think something's a raw deal you never know how it might work in your favor -- God's got your back!

So now I'm halfway through the chemo and my next treatment is Wed. 3/10. Pray for less nausea because that is really the hardest part for me. And I'll try to be good and not to let another whole month go by before posting again. This means I may have to resort to writing about the really cute kids so all my posts aren't along the lines of "I'm sick... I'm tired... Now I'm feeling better...blah, blah, blah," so consider yourselves warned. :)